Stay Married to a Narcissist

A couple years ago, when I interviewed Meredith Resnick about her book Narcissism: Surviving the Self-Involved, the response stunned me. The post quickly became one of the more clicked on and commented on the site. But many of you were asking the same sorts of questions. You already knew – from experience  – that narcissists [...]


It was one of those weekends. If I told you how many writing deadlines I had for Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and so on, you'd stop reading because it would stress you out and you don't read this blog to stress yourself out. What's important for you to know is this: I'd planned to work most [...]

There was the sound of nails tapping against the hardwood floor. I was still dreaming. I was about to teach a class, but I’d misplaced my purse and I couldn’t find the bathroom. Now something wet and cold was poking me on the side of my face. It’s bad enough that I can’t find my [...]


This past spring, my husband arrived home with a used minivan. He spent the rest of the spring altering it — removing seats, building a platform, outfitting a tent to fit snugly onto the back of it. By the time he was done, the minivan could store everything he needed to camp for a very [...]

Vintage Grunge Still Life

There are people who will tell you that you are only as old as you feel. These are the same people who swear that you are not 40+ years old, but rather 40+ years young. They are forever saying things like, "Aging is a state of mind." All I can say is this: Those people [...]