Free Marriage Help and Advice

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So you just typed “free marriage advice” or “free marriage help” into Google and it brought you here. You need marriage advice because you seriously can’t remember why you ever married in the first place. Maybe you find yourself dreaming of all of the possible ways your significant other could just drop dead. Perhaps you wish you could have the joy of waking up one morning and finding your spouse’s picture on the side of the milk carton.

Welcome to Project: Happily Ever After®, a brutally honest look at the ups and downs of marriage, told through the eyes of a former divorce daydreamer. I started this site after I  went from wishing my husband would just drop dead already to renewing my wedding vows. Now it’s my mission to share what I’ve learned with you. Free marriage advice and help is just a click away!

Project: Happily Ever After® offers:

  • Lots of free marriage advice from someone who learned how to have a happy marriage by first having an unhappy one
  • A safe and supportive community of current and recovering divorce daydreamers who support one another in their quest to save their marriages
  • A way to feel more normal and less alone. Being stuck in a bad marriage is bad enough. Why feel guilty about it, too?
  • Simple tools you can use to save your marriage

“Project: Happily Ever After is like a wrinkle cream for a tighter, firmer marriage. It gives people something they can try right away–with results after just two applications.” —Monica, a regular reader

How to Get Marriage Advice and Help

To learn more about my philosophy and what this site is about, please read my manifesto. You can also check out my most popular posts about marriage, sex, happiness and more:

Free marriage advice series

Sex advice series

How to be happy series

How to speak your voice series

I love you, but I’m not in love with you

How to recession-proof your marriage

What is love anyway?

33 surefire ways to screw up your marriage

5 ways to affair-proof your marriage

6 reasons not to stay married

For more posts and tips, check out the marriage advice tab.

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Email me (alisa @ alisabowman dot com) questions, tips, and anything else you’d like to share. Due to a recent influx of spoof emails from trolls, I cannot offer marriage advice via email, but I will use the feedback and questions you send to continually improve this blog. If I think others will benefit from an answer to your question, I will craft a blog post around it.

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