Poll: Do you cuddle after sex?
Saturday, April 10th, 2010I was reading The Generous Husband this morning. The post encouraged guys to cuddle with their women after sex. I’m guessing that most women would appreciate that. Indeed, most women probably get annoyed with husbands who conk out right after climax, especially if they’ve failed to completely take care of business (and I’m talking about her business if you’re not quite sure). But I have to say, I really hate the post-sex cuddle. In the beginning, I did it with my husband out of obligation. I would lie there and I would count in my head. Eventually, I’d think, “This must have been long enough,” and then I would get up or move away. He never seemed to care. Eventually we talked about it. It turns out that neither one of us wants to cuddle after sex. So once it’s over, we embrace for about, oh, 10 seconds, we thank each other, and then we get out of bed and get dressed. Sometimes my husband takes a nap, especially if I’ve rocked his world in a big way. It always makes me happy when that happens, because it’s his way of giving me a compliment as far as I’m concerned. (Note: we generally have sex during the day).
This leads me to a theory. It’s this. Just as some people are introverts and others are extroverts and just as some people are cleaners and others are messy, I think there are two different types of physical personalities. Some people are melders, and others are not. What do you think? Do you cuddle after sex?
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