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A Post About Random Stuff That Has Nothing In Common
I almost didn’t blog tonight. I’m tired. I’ve got a migraine. I wasn’t inspired. I’ve already missed two days of the blogathon. With that track record, what’s another missed post gonna do to me?
So after lounging around in my daughter’s bed as she played Spooky ISpy on my iPhone and as I read a book about white collar psychopaths (you think I am exaggerating, and I assure you that I am not) and then reading The Little Einsteins to her and then listening to her read it back to me (note: I believe this is a textbook case of a run on sentence), I figured the best thing I could do for myself was go to bed at 9 a.m. But, for some reason, I checked email which led to reading a couple blog posts which led to a few random thoughts and then, voila, this post. Here are a few random tidbits that you’ll want to know.
1. The Caregiver’s Manifesto: I wrote about how Caregiving Sucks last week. Today one of my favorite Buddhist doctors wrote this nice post about The Caregiver’s Manifesto. If you are struggling to care for a chronically ill loved one, you will find it helpful.
2. The Secret Formula for Real Confidence: There is one. Mike Panebianco is a former pilot and cockpit instructor who teaches conflict and confidence skills. He wrote a guest post over at my favorite English life coach’s blog about confidence. I learned a few new tricks, so I’m fairly confident that you will as well.
3. Help me name this prize: Once a month here at ProjectHappilyEverAfter, I will be awarding a prize to a couple who has improved their marriage. Basically it’s a Most Improved Marriage award, but I’d like to give it a catchier name than that. Musicians have the Grammys. Actors and actresses have the Oscars. Bloggers have the Bloggies. What should married folks have? You tell me. I will award the person who comes up with the winning Award name with a free signed copy of How to Be Rich and Happy.
4. I was unusually helpful today. I didn’t plan on being unusually helpful. It just sort of happened. A couple people needed my help and advice. I offered it freely. Don’t you know that I felt like the most awesome person on the planet after doing so? I felt like the polar opposite of suck. Lesson learned: When I feel like I suck, do a good deed. Then I will know that I matter.
5. The importance of over delivering. My husband and I were at The Farmhouse, the restaurant and bar where we met roughly 14 years ago. I’d already eaten, so I wasn’t particularly hungry. Still, they had oysters on the menu. I asked if they were roasted. I had roasted oysters for the first time ever about 6 months ago. All I can say about that experience is this: Holy Multiple Culinary Orgasm. I had 2 dozen. Unfortunately, the oysters at the Farmhouse were raw. I’m not a fan of raw oysters because they are not easy to chew into pieces and I don’t like swallowing big glumps of food all at once. Well the chef heard me talking about all of this and he said, “I’ll roast some oysters for you.” I said, “You will? For me?” He said, “Of course.” Then he asked me how I wanted them prepared. I had no idea about that, so I told him to surprise me, which he did. Quadruple. Culinary. Orgasm. I will be back for more, and soon.
6. Did you know soda can go bad? I didn’t either, but here are some gross photos of soda that no woman in her right mind should drink.
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The HappilyEverAfter Award, to go with your blog name.
I love helping people when I’m feeling down about life or myself. I find most of the time the person I’m helping has it much worse than I do, so not only do I feel better for having helped, but it puts my life in perspective.
Any woman that doesn’t want to get osteoporosis shouldn’t be drinking soda. Something about the carbonation leaches calcium out of the bones. (Just a bit of knowledge I gained and thought I’d share.)
How about The Crappy to Happy award?
or the Merry Marry
.-= Holly´s last blog .. =-.
This is funny and insightful. Doing good for others does improve our disposition. Personally, I don’t like oysters, any way they come, but I’m all about fantastic food and enjoying what you’re eating–yum! And migraines suck, I think they are the devil’s revenge and I give you props for blogging when you have a migraine–I wouldn’t, I don’t leave my couch when I have one as I get extremely sensitive to noise, light and can’t concentrate enough to read–so thank you for writing this post. You’re still in the runnings for the blogathon, I’m sure, and if not, hey, we’ve all benefited from your honest effort!
Many Blessings,
-Sarah Liz
I recommend a book called “the psychopath next door” it describes how one in every 4 people lacks empathy and described several different kind of psychopathic personalities from lazy couch potatoes to big corporate abusers. a real eye opener, I loved it.
award name: the “Turnabouts”
If the Grammys can be popular without converting the “y” to an “ie,” then I say go with the Marrys. Short. Sweet. To the point.
.-= Ben´s last blog ..Hooters-Too Fat for the Job? =-.
I must have the name of the book about psychopaths!
.-= Tracy´s last blog ..Well dang, I guess soda can go bad =-.
I was thinking the Cinderella award, because it goes with the happily ever after thing and that she worked herself to the bone before getting there
I do, however, like the previously mentioned ‘turnabouts’ and ‘crappy to happy’.
Alisa; The Farmhouse was just recommended to Ray and I by another couple from Bangor, Pa that stopped in there for drinks and appetizers and stayed for dinner. The abbundance of great little restaurants is what I love about living on the Delaware River But in Milford, NJ we have the Oyster House which is the best for Oysters and lump meat crabs
I love the ideas posts thus far – you’re going to have a tough time choosing among them. Perhaps you should create a poll and have your readers vote for their favorite?
.-= Melissa´s last blog ..Tip of the Iceberg – Diving into Networking =-.
I have never had oysters that way, I MUST do that asap!
.-= Andi´s last blog ..Rewards Based Doing =-.
i love the idea of crappy to happy!!
is the book “The sociopath Next Door”?
Marissa: I think the Sociopath Next Door is the one someone else commented on. The one I’m reading is called Snakes in Suits. I also read a book by the same author called Without Conscience. But these two I’m really reading for work. They are easy reads, but I’m not sure other people would find them as fascinating as I do.
.-= Alisa Bowman´s last blog ..Odd Todbits That Fail to Bore =-.
Maybe “The Devout Duo” award. I do like crappy to happy as well.
How about a take on Erin & Aaron “The Devoted Duo”.
These are all GREAT ideas for the prize name. I’m going to take them and run a poll and see which one gets the most votes.
Did you run the poll yet??? I didn’t see it.
I LOVE the “Crappy to Happy Award” idea…very catchy!
If you’re still taking entries from late readers like me, I’d like to add:
“The Alisa Cup”…Like “The Stanley Cup” in hockey…only better!
Sarabeth–I haven’t run it yet and I’m still taking entries. I love that and will add it to the list. I hope to run the poll soon, once I figure out why the poll plug in keeps wreaking havoc with my site.
How about: the golden ring(s)?
Crappy to Happy is good. Whoever came up with that is genius.