Comments on: How to Get a Spouse to Fall Back in Love with You http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/ Because life after "I do" isn't always so charming Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:39:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Betty http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-73784 Betty Thu, 09 Jun 2011 23:59:47 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-73784 We all lose site of ourselves. I agree with the author. Get back to YOU. That's what they fell in love with. I'm done being a flor mat. Peace in the I don't even know where! We all lose site of ourselves. I agree with the author. Get back to YOU. That’s what they fell in love with. I’m done being a flor mat.
Peace in the I don’t even know where!

]]> By: Millard Thew http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-33482 Millard Thew Sun, 23 Jan 2011 18:09:14 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-33482 Thanks for taking the time to debate this, I feel strongly about it and love learning extra on this topic. If doable, as you achieve expertise, would you thoughts updating your weblog with further data? This can be very useful for me. Thanks for taking the time to debate this, I feel strongly about it and love learning extra on this topic. If doable, as you achieve expertise, would you thoughts updating your weblog with further data? This can be very useful for me.

]]> By: DMH http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-14091 DMH Thu, 23 Sep 2010 13:07:04 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-14091 Awesome post Alisa. I really really enjoyed this one. My eyes are open NOW. Classic quote: "If that’s not enough to get your spouse to fall back in love with you, then your spouse just doesn’t deserve you." This is excellent stuff right here. I am taking this all the way to the bank and cashing it. I have begun to get my LIFE back and I am no longer feeling any pity for myself. I know that I am a good man and I have a lot to offer. It will truly be her loss if she ends up leaving. Preparation is key. Thanks Alisa....you're a jewel!!! Awesome post Alisa. I really really enjoyed this one. My eyes are open NOW.

Classic quote: “If that’s not enough to get your spouse to fall back in love with you, then your spouse just doesn’t deserve you.”

This is excellent stuff right here. I am taking this all the way to the bank and cashing it.

I have begun to get my LIFE back and I am no longer feeling any pity for myself. I know that I am a good man and I have a lot to offer. It will truly be her loss if she ends up leaving. Preparation is key.

Thanks Alisa….you’re a jewel!!!

]]> By: mario http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-12520 mario Fri, 27 Aug 2010 01:44:17 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-12520 "I can’t picture a life without him", from the last comment made me say to myself reciprocally: I can’t picture a life without her... She is not the mother of my children and she have two from her former family, she is going 42 soon, and I'm 54; We've met each other in a chat before five years, fall in love deeply, a few months later we've gathered in my home together with the children, and it was nearly perfect for two-three years... Last year's spring she leave me unexpectedly and after much effort from me, and after a course at family consulting, she came back to me before Christmas, ...only to depart from me again in this spring with her seventeenth age daughter. Now I have hard time alone, but she is arranging her new life as there was nothing before between us. Can't get it at all, and it seems there isn't still a particular person between us. Any suggestions welcome, thanks! “I can’t picture a life without him”, from the last comment made me say to myself reciprocally: I can’t picture a life without her…
She is not the mother of my children and she have two from her former family, she is going 42 soon, and I’m 54; We’ve met each other in a chat before five years, fall in love deeply, a few months later we’ve gathered in my home together with the children, and it was nearly perfect for two-three years… Last year’s spring she leave me unexpectedly and after much effort from me, and after a course at family consulting, she came back to me before Christmas, …only to depart from me again in this spring with her seventeenth age daughter. Now I have hard time alone, but she is arranging her new life as there was nothing before between us. Can’t get it at all, and it seems there isn’t still a particular person between us. Any suggestions welcome, thanks!

]]> By: OneHotTamale25 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-11621 OneHotTamale25 Mon, 09 Aug 2010 02:15:00 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-11621 So (spouses) ought also to love their (spouses) as their own bodies. (One) who loves (a spouse) loves (the self); for no one ever hated (one's) own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it.... So (spouses) ought also to love their (spouses) as their own bodies. (One) who loves (a spouse) loves (the self); for no one ever hated (one’s) own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it….

]]> By: Angel http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-10931 Angel Fri, 23 Jul 2010 04:46:16 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-10931 I think so many of you have such a good point! I've just found this site, tonight & posted on "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" earlier. I feel like my heart is breaking, repeatedly, right now - and I feel helpless to stop it. But, I also know that maybe, if I can find some of the self-esteem & self-confidence that I had when we met, then maybe he'll remember why he fell in love with me to begin with. I can't MAKE him do anything - no one can. But, no matter what I do, I can't picture a life without him, either... I think so many of you have such a good point! I’ve just found this site, tonight & posted on “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” earlier. I feel like my heart is breaking, repeatedly, right now – and I feel helpless to stop it. But, I also know that maybe, if I can find some of the self-esteem & self-confidence that I had when we met, then maybe he’ll remember why he fell in love with me to begin with. I can’t MAKE him do anything – no one can. But, no matter what I do, I can’t picture a life without him, either…

]]> By: Jamie http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-10594 Jamie Thu, 15 Jul 2010 12:24:51 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-10594 Thank you Bern! Thank you Bern!

]]> By: Bern http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-10573 Bern Thu, 15 Jul 2010 01:27:51 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-10573 Jamie - glad that Ron is able to offer such great advice, and that's what this is all about; knowing that you're not alone and others can offer advice and support. It is a huge plus that both you and your wife are committed to action to save your marriage, as that is more than half the battle - the commitment to do something to improve it! All the best to you and your family Jamie – glad that Ron is able to offer such great advice, and that’s what this is all about; knowing that you’re not alone and others can offer advice and support. It is a huge plus that both you and your wife are committed to action to save your marriage, as that is more than half the battle – the commitment to do something to improve it!
All the best to you and your family

]]> By: Drummer Guy http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-10558 Drummer Guy Wed, 14 Jul 2010 18:53:04 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-10558 Deep breathing is good...lol :-) Deep breathing is good…lol :-)

]]> By: Jamie http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2010/05/how-to-get-a-spouse-to-fall-back-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-10556 Jamie Wed, 14 Jul 2010 18:50:40 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=4198#comment-10556 Thank you again Ron. I think that we will hold off on counseling for a short time. Time being the biggest issue. I have started to work on some things about myself and am doing some reflecting. We have been married for eight years and I have not slowed down for the last three. Scary when you miss what might be missing in your relationship. Deep breath... thanks. Thank you again Ron. I think that we will hold off on counseling for a short time. Time being the biggest issue. I have started to work on some things about myself and am doing some reflecting. We have been married for eight years and I have not slowed down for the last three. Scary when you miss what might be missing in your relationship. Deep breath… thanks.

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