Comments on: The Best Marriage Advice You Ever Got

By: sedigheh

sedigheh — Tue, 22 Nov 2011 08:15:47 +0000

sure

By: sedigheh

sedigheh — Tue, 22 Nov 2011 07:28:33 +0000

hi
I’m a woman from Iran,a foreign country for you.but I think somethings are not diffrent between people around the world.
the best advice I ‘d heard it was that you must be at best figure for your partner.I mean that some of us always have good looking and nice with best perfume for atrange people in street or coffes but for our partner are sad.tired.disorgenized…
I think when you are orgnised your spouse figure out you pay attention him or her feeling in addition you always look fantastic among people
I got married last year and I have not alot exprience. forgive me about this , and my wrong words…

By: John Reece

John Reece — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 13:25:21 +0000

Marriage is a partnership between two people yes, but a marriage also needs the couple to have their own hobbies, interests and different ways because this can actually bring them closer together and everyone needs to be their own person from time to time.
John Reece´s last [type] ..The Best Man Responsibilities – Your 10 Point Checklist

By: Martyna

Martyna — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 21:36:07 +0000

I don’t really have marraige advice to add, but something I have learned in the five and a half years I’ve been married. Sometimes you have to be selfish. Everything I do is for my husband, from cleaning up the house to folding and putting away all the laundry I usually do it thinking he’ll be appreciative and it will make his day easier. Then we hit the biggest speed bump in the world in May which led to not knowing the fate of our marriage. Then of course once I came back home he was regretting what was said and he was instantly better and a more loving and attentive husband and I was left with burning coals wondering who I was and where this all went wrong and if I could really trust him.
So, after wallowing in depression for a couple months I picked myself back up and started thinking about what I wanted and for the first time in my married life I was selfish and we did what I knew I wanted to do and not “what I wanted to do which is really what I hope he wants to do”. I slowly regained my trust for him and things are a lot better.
You have to focus on yourself once in a while so you can be a healthy contributing partner in the marriage.

By: Linda Davis

Linda Davis — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 23:27:47 +0000

My post might be a tad too late but I would just like to share one of the best pieces advice on marriage: start thinking in twos. A marriage is a partnership. Get rid of your “my” and replace it with “our”. This reinforces a shared commitment which will result to a happy and lasting marriage.
.-= Linda Davis´s last blog ..Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-12-06 =-.

By: Debra: Philadelphia Wedding Reception Sites

Debra: Philadelphia Wedding Reception Sites — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 19:08:10 +0000

I’m going to offer some advice based on my experience working with bridal parties. It’s not intended to be deep, or moving.

Basically, brides and grooms should be concerned and considerate of the other person. I’ve worked with many bridal parties and those that think about others around them seem to be on the road to a successful relationship.

By: Cheryl

Cheryl — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 06:44:43 +0000

The best marriage advice came from a friend’s Great Aunt, who has been married for over 50 years and gives this advice to all newlyweds…with all seriousness intended:

“The first fifteen years will be Hell.”

I figure if we haven’t killed each other or gotten divorced by then, we just might make it…lol. (We’re on year 6.)

By: Maureen

Maureen — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:03:15 +0000

My dad told me to marry my best friend.

By: Jacques

Jacques — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:25:45 +0000

Be willing to put yourself into question, look at it from the other standpoint, and take it from there.

By: Cyndi

Cyndi — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 07:42:10 +0000

I’d have to say that the best advice on marriage I ever received was actually more of an insight than actual advice. It came from our marriage counselor. We were separated and I was 99% certain we would get divorced. One of our major issues was something my husband did 10 years earlier that I “couldn’t” get past. He cheated. The counselor pointed out that I was the only one keeping that affair alive. The girl was long gone, my husband had proven for 10 years that it was his biggest regret in life and that he was committed to our marriage. It was me, causing my own pain and a lot of the turmoil that led to our near-divorce. Me. So, as far as advice goes, I guess this one boils down to…take a look at yourself. What are you contributing to that’s causing marital problems. That’s some great advice.
.-= Cyndi´s last blog ..Our Biggest Delusion =-.