Comments on: 17 Happy Marriage Tips

By: divorce rate

divorce rate — Fri, 13 May 2011 11:25:30 +0000

We all have our freedom to choose our partners in life. There’s no harm in trying these tips though. But we must always remember that marriage is not something you can easily withdraw yourself from. Nowadays, people easily get married within a few months of knowing each other. Then after a few more months, when problems arise, the first solution resorted into is separation. As a result, divorce rate continues to grow high. Relationships are not preserved. We need not rush things. If something’s bound to happen, it will happen. Bottom line, let’s think more than twice before finally settling down to avoid an unfortunate fate in the future.

By: Chelsey Davy

Chelsey Davy — Fri, 13 May 2011 11:24:14 +0000

love these tips!

By: LMA

LMA — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 11:11:27 +0000

Thanks for the great tips! Its more helpful.

By: D. Maurice

D. Maurice — Tue, 21 Sep 2010 18:34:42 +0000

Alisa,

I really have been enjoying your posts and learning ALOT from all of them as well as when others posts things too. I feel like I’m no longer alone on most of the matters at hand. These tips are on point. I really love the flash the boobs and mooning idea to cause a diversion with the spouse. Most men would applaud this effort.

If my wife did this, it would be OVER! Done deal, happy happy joy joy!!!

By: Alisa

Alisa — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:49:08 +0000

Angel–I highly recommend meeting with a sex therapist. These people are highly trained and very comforting. Worth their weight in gold. Sometimes it takes laying it all out there with a stranger to get to the bottom of things.

By: Angel

Angel — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 05:09:52 +0000

Naomi – I couldn’t agree more!
Alisa – Your blog has given me real hope for the future of my marriage & I am So Very grateful!
These tips, as usual, are wonderful!
With the excetion of the fact that, no matter how much sex can help your relationship, if there’s no attraction, it’s out of the question. I’m still very much attracted to my husband, but we rarely have sex anymore (once every few months!), because he is no longer attracted to me. He tells me that he can see that I am still a very beautiful woman, but I just don’t turn him on, anymore. I’m sure it is a matter of him being bored, but am not sure how to fix that. We’ve had a very wild sex life for most of our relationship & it’s been amazing, but it makes it very difficult to spice things up, now that things have gotten stale! Hard to come up with new ideas, when we’ve already tried so many things, for the first time, together! (Sorry if that’s TMI – just wanted to give a perspective as a woman who isn’t getting any! Also, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!)

By: Courtney

Courtney — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 02:24:24 +0000

I love these tips and I firmly believe in a lot of them. I would conjure up crazy ideas – fights in my head, that would probably never happen, but I was that unhappy and upset with my husband that I wanted a reason to be mad at him, even if the reason wasn’t ‘real’. Then I decided to be the bigger person and, while it’s hard, it was the only way I was going to start being happy. AND it helps A LOT and I see my hubby following suit. Thanks!

By: Kanoelani

Kanoelani — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 19:55:17 +0000

All of these tips pretty much works, I’m already doing most of it.

By: Mindy Lou

Mindy Lou — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 18:14:02 +0000

I’ll keep these in mind for when I finally take the “plunge”!! Lol

By: Naomi

Naomi — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 17:04:51 +0000

First of all, I love your blog! I’ve only found it recently, but your blog (and insight) may well be the thing that helps me save my marriage. The despair I felt is slowly dissipating as I read your blog and think, “Wow! Maybe I can save something that sometimes seems irreparable.”

As for your tips, I think they are right on. I feel like you are speaking directly to the thoughts in my head! You give me hope that I can stop thinking of my husband as an evil man that was just never right for me. I know I will have to let go of that anger at resentment at always being the one who is doing the work. This post has reminded me that though I will be doing the heavy lifting in initiating change, I will also be reaping the benefits (duh). You have hit the mark with this one.

Thank you for being brave enough to write this blog! It is real, it is insightful, it is inspiring, and it’s funny. Keep ‘em coming.