Comments on: How to Boost Your Sex Drive http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/ Because life after "I do" isn't always so charming Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:39:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Casual Dating Online http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-4553 Casual Dating Online Tue, 03 Nov 2009 07:49:40 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-4553 I find that there are a lot of ways to boost my sex drive. One of the most frustrating things to me is when I am too full after I eat and I don't feel sexy enough for sex right then. Sometimes if I wait til later on until I am not so full my sex drive is gone.... Recently when this happens, I reach for a small portion of dark chocolate. It seems to work wonders and has me fired up in no time. Give it a try and let me know how it works! I find that there are a lot of ways to boost my sex drive.

One of the most frustrating things to me is when I am too full after I eat and I don’t feel sexy enough for sex right then. Sometimes if I wait til later on until I am not so full my sex drive is gone….

Recently when this happens, I reach for a small portion of dark chocolate. It seems to work wonders and has me fired up in no time.

Give it a try and let me know how it works!

]]> By: Spanked Husband markiee http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-4234 Spanked Husband markiee Thu, 08 Oct 2009 09:53:40 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-4234 My wife has incorporated spanking into our foreplay (or fiveplay as we like to call it) except she isn't the one bent over a knee it's me. If I don't satisfy her fast enough or good enough it's back over her knee I go. If I think I am all spent and can't perform again she shows me how wrong I am and another spanking never fails to get me excited. Many times she will put me over her knee and spank me until she feels me grow as her warm breasts on my back help to speed the process. Then she has me pay homage to her bottom before putting me on my back on our bed and riding me to our mutual satisfaction. Ever since she has taken over in the bedroom and dominates me things have been much better between us sexually. My wife has incorporated spanking into our foreplay (or fiveplay as we like to call it) except she isn’t the one bent over a knee it’s me. If I don’t satisfy her fast enough or good enough it’s back over her knee I go. If I think I am all spent and can’t perform again she shows me how wrong I am and another spanking never fails to get me excited. Many times she will put me over her knee and spank me until she feels me grow as her warm breasts on my back help to speed the process. Then she has me pay homage to her bottom before putting me on my back on our bed and riding me to our mutual satisfaction. Ever since she has taken over in the bedroom and dominates me things have been much better between us sexually.

]]> By: Alisa Bowman http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-3719 Alisa Bowman Sat, 19 Sep 2009 21:03:40 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-3719 Linda--I'm so glad you shared this, and I'm so glad it worked for you. I learned about it from my gynecologist. She discovered it and uses it herself, and now she recommends it to all of her patients. Linda–I’m so glad you shared this, and I’m so glad it worked for you. I learned about it from my gynecologist. She discovered it and uses it herself, and now she recommends it to all of her patients.

]]> By: Linda http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-3711 Linda Sat, 19 Sep 2009 13:10:36 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-3711 My husband may gasp if he knows I am giving out such personal info about our personal life! I am recovering after the last reply I left, myself. Its all about helping each other, though, right? This is an update on that one. We had the "event" last night. It was very natural. I even initiated. Applause, applause. This was all due to using the coconut oil, daily, then at the time of the "event". My husband liked the feel of it too. There was no waiting for it to warm to body temp after applying and the comfort level it afforded was like Mother Nature, herself. We reccomend the coconut oil highly. Alisa, where did you get the idea to try this? I must tell you that, heretofore, the only refferals were to commercial products made for this purpose. Gyns and counselors, alike, were more into behavior modification for people my age who did not want to use herbs or hormones. Bio-identicals are more available now for those of us who are post-menopausal. I'm not even sure about those. I will be asking at my next appointment, though, just to be sure it isn't something I want. But if just being properly lubricated on a day to day basis is enough for me to want to return to sexual activity, then, hey, that's a huge start! Thank you, Alisa. My hausband thanks you as well! My husband may gasp if he knows I am giving out such personal info about our personal life! I am recovering after the last reply I left, myself. Its all about helping each other, though, right? This is an update on that one.
We had the “event” last night. It was very natural. I even initiated. Applause, applause. This was all due to using the coconut oil, daily, then at the time of the “event”. My husband liked the feel of it too. There was no waiting for it to warm to body temp after applying and the comfort level it afforded was like Mother Nature, herself.
We reccomend the coconut oil highly. Alisa, where did you get the idea to try this?
I must tell you that, heretofore, the only refferals were to commercial products made for this purpose. Gyns and counselors, alike, were more into behavior modification for people my age who did not want to use herbs or hormones. Bio-identicals are more available now for those of us who are post-menopausal. I’m not even sure about those. I will be asking at my next appointment, though, just to be sure it isn’t something I want. But if just being properly lubricated on a day to day basis is enough for me to want to return to sexual activity, then, hey, that’s a huge start!
Thank you, Alisa. My hausband thanks you as well!

]]> By: Linda http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-3671 Linda Fri, 18 Sep 2009 12:56:41 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-3671 Alisa, I have to say, I was skeptical about the coconut oil at first. I bought some anyway. After using it before I get dressed and before turning in at night, I must admit to feeling more natural. We haven't gotten to the, ahem, sex yet. After being married for 26 years and the verbal communication drying up too, its very difficult to get my motor running when the only talking he wants to hear is, "Tonight/today's the night/day!" Please don't tell me to initiate conversation. Its his biggest nightmare. And our relationship didn't start out that way! Maybe, Alisa, you could blog about how people do as much of a mating dance as animals until they (yes, women dance it too) get "what they want". Then its anybody's guess as to the person they become. When the rings are on the fingers and the "I do's" are said, watch the metamorphosis. See how solicitous they are when sex is the prize. Then after you both heave that sigh after the big "O" and enjoy a brief period of afterglow, clock how fast you become the last thing on his/her mind. Alisa,
I have to say, I was skeptical about the coconut oil at first. I bought some anyway. After using it before I get dressed and before turning in at night, I must admit to feeling more natural. We haven’t gotten to the, ahem, sex yet.
After being married for 26 years and the verbal communication drying up too, its very difficult to get my motor running when the only talking he wants to hear is, “Tonight/today’s the night/day!”
Please don’t tell me to initiate conversation. Its his biggest nightmare. And our relationship didn’t start out that way!
Maybe, Alisa, you could blog about how people do as much of a mating dance as animals until they (yes, women dance it too) get “what they want”. Then its anybody’s guess as to the person they become. When the rings are on the fingers and the “I do’s” are said, watch the metamorphosis. See how solicitous they are when sex is the prize. Then after you both heave that sigh after the big “O” and enjoy a brief period of afterglow, clock how fast you become the last thing on his/her mind.

]]> By: Alisa http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-3408 Alisa Fri, 28 Aug 2009 10:49:02 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-3408 Hi Sarah--I didn't notice the typos. I make typos all the time. Part of being creative is learning how to shut off the part of your brain that wants you to be perfect, which means you will make more mistakes as you write (wrong word choice, misspellings, etc) because you are opening yourself up to bigger thinking. Loved your comment. Keep em coming. Hi Sarah–I didn’t notice the typos. I make typos all the time. Part of being creative is learning how to shut off the part of your brain that wants you to be perfect, which means you will make more mistakes as you write (wrong word choice, misspellings, etc) because you are opening yourself up to bigger thinking. Loved your comment. Keep em coming.

]]> By: Shela Dean http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-3407 Shela Dean Fri, 28 Aug 2009 08:36:43 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-3407 I'm a new reader of your blog. I love it. It's so much fun. I had to comment on this one because in just a few weeks my new book Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy will be released. Just as great foreplay is essential to Wow! sex, great emotional foreplay is essential to a Wow! relationship. And, that's what the book's about. It all started when, trying to cure my husband of being chronically late, I said to him, "Sweetheart, there's something you need to know about being in relationship. Foreplay is all day, every day, 24/7. It includes anything and everything that affects how I feel about you. So, here's an idea for you. Try racking up some Frequent Foreplay Miles by being on time. The more you have, the more 'in the mood' I'll be." In his sexual self-interest, he became the on-time guy. Now, it's a strategy for creating what I call Total Intimacy. I’m a new reader of your blog. I love it. It’s so much fun. I had to comment on this one because in just a few weeks my new book Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy will be released. Just as great foreplay is essential to Wow! sex, great emotional foreplay is essential to a Wow! relationship. And, that’s what the book’s about. It all started when, trying to cure my husband of being chronically late, I said to him, “Sweetheart, there’s something you need to know about being in relationship. Foreplay is all day, every day, 24/7. It includes anything and everything that affects how I feel about you. So, here’s an idea for you. Try racking up some Frequent Foreplay Miles by being on time. The more you have, the more ‘in the mood’ I’ll be.” In his sexual self-interest, he became the on-time guy. Now, it’s a strategy for creating what I call Total Intimacy.

]]> By: Sarah Liz http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-3405 Sarah Liz Fri, 28 Aug 2009 03:37:39 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-3405 I cannot type tonight, sorry for all the typos...I'm supposed to be a 'writer' too! LOL! I cannot type tonight, sorry for all the typos…I’m supposed to be a ‘writer’ too! LOL!

]]> By: Sarah Liz http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-3404 Sarah Liz Fri, 28 Aug 2009 03:35:25 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-3404 Yeah, I like the ice cream tip too!!! Sounds pretty fun to me! Your brain IS your biggest sex organ, absolutely! When I was younger, back in college, I took a Human Sexuality Class and I have to say--it did wonders for me. It was in that class that I learned that your brain is your biggest sex organ and that there's a whole chemical/biological process leading up to, during and after sex. And it makes so much sense! I think married sex can be absolutely awesome, but you do have to worker harder at keeping it fresh & new. I thinking being willing to listen, communicate and TRY new things is huge! Also, so is beings spontaneous. Yes, sometimes, you need to have sex for sake of having it--and sometimes, you do need to plan/schedule it. BUT...being spontaneous and saying "forget it" to do "to-list" of the day works wonders too! Great tips! Oh, and stripping is totally hot--and it works! :) I think a lot of it mentally preparing yourself and putting yourself in the mood! Here's to great sex for a lifetime! Many Blissful Blessings, -Sarah Liz :) Yeah, I like the ice cream tip too!!! Sounds pretty fun to me! Your brain IS your biggest sex organ, absolutely! When I was younger, back in college, I took a Human Sexuality Class and I have to say–it did wonders for me. It was in that class that I learned that your brain is your biggest sex organ and that there’s a whole chemical/biological process leading up to, during and after sex. And it makes so much sense! I think married sex can be absolutely awesome, but you do have to worker harder at keeping it fresh & new. I thinking being willing to listen, communicate and TRY new things is huge! Also, so is beings spontaneous. Yes, sometimes, you need to have sex for sake of having it–and sometimes, you do need to plan/schedule it. BUT…being spontaneous and saying “forget it” to do “to-list” of the day works wonders too! Great tips! Oh, and stripping is totally hot–and it works! :) I think a lot of it mentally preparing yourself and putting yourself in the mood! Here’s to great sex for a lifetime!

Many Blissful Blessings,
-Sarah Liz :)

]]> By: TraderHubbyDad http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/08/how-to-boost-your-sex-drive/comment-page-1/#comment-3403 TraderHubbyDad Fri, 28 Aug 2009 01:41:38 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=2492#comment-3403 You are welcome. You are welcome.

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