Public speaking for me is speaking to more than 5 people, and irony of ironies, I love talking but only to 1 or 2 people, speaking to a room of people induces nightmares, bouts of speaking to myself, wishing it is a different day, the speech is over already etc.

However, I read somewhere (dont remember where, but it stuck in my mind) that no matter how difficult something is, always try to understand, and always attempt, even if you are reading a book on rocket science, make sure you put down the book having understood at least one thing.

All in all your post is very encouraging and I will definitely try practising in front of the mirror which does not judge, look away painfully or yawn.

I’ve never had a problem with public speaking or being in front of people. Still, I do get a bit nervous when I’m in that situation. But, I think you’re right, we do tell ourselves we’re not good at things, when we really could be!

I think a lot of it has to do with the WILLINGNESS to do something; to learn something new or improve upon what we already know a bit about.

I also think a lot of times in life, you have to just admit when you’re NOT fantastic at something. You have to be aware of both your strengths, and your weaknesses.

For instance, I’m a fantastic cook, but it took me YEARS of practice to get this great at it. And, I’m still not that great of a baker. I CAN bake, and when I do, I do alright. But, overall, I’m a 10x’s better cook than I am a baker.

My husband, for instance, cannot spell very well, but he can sell ANYTHING! He’s got a charm and charisma to him that IS amazing, he could probably sell dog doo if he had too! Me, on other hand, I can’t sell worth crap. I just don’t care to do that.

Another example about strengths & weaknesses: I am great writer (most of the time, when I really apply myself that is!), but I can’t crochet! You know what I mean? I know what I’m good at, and what I’m not.

I’ve learned what I excel at and what I don’t. That doesn’t mean that if somebody ASKED me to crochet or bake or sell something I would automatically say “NO,” it just means that I’d rather cook, write or spell something. (Yes, I know, spelling/writing are kind of intertwined)!

Your post inspires me because I think we could ALL learn something new each day.

I think we could & should learn to tackle our fears, one step at a time. Breaking them into managable chunks are a great idea! I really like your “Mrs. Project” attitude! I think it’s great! And I’m proud of you for speaking up in front of an audience–that is very difficult for most people and I think you did a great job! Scouring the Internet and learning all you can/could about it is a great idea!

Like me, the last time I baked something, it turned out great and people raved about it–but I too was thinking “if you only knew….”

Great post, Alisa, keep ‘em coming and keep up the great & courageous work! You are an inspiration to us all!

Many Blessings,
-Sarah Liz