Comments on: Can this marriage be saved? http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/ Because life after "I do" isn't always so charming Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:39:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Sandy http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-23749 Sandy Sun, 02 Jan 2011 03:03:18 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1918#comment-23749 It's nice to find a good article. I really enjoy lots of the articles on your site. It’s nice to find a good article. I really enjoy lots of the articles on your site.

]]> By: Sam Crix http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-12739 Sam Crix Thu, 02 Sep 2010 10:52:04 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1918#comment-12739 For me, ending a marriage is much harder than you think. I have to think it over in a hundred times before making any decision might a little help in saving a marriage. You have to consider the advantages and disadvantages when saving the marriage. I will do everything in case it will happen to me. For me, ending a marriage is much harder than you think. I have to think it over in a hundred times before making any decision might a little help in saving a marriage. You have to consider the advantages and disadvantages when saving the marriage. I will do everything in case it will happen to me.
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]]> By: Ola Heppel http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-9099 Ola Heppel Sat, 29 May 2010 21:31:26 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1918#comment-9099 Hi. I love your blog! More please! Hi. I love your blog! More please!

]]> By: Savy http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-5955 Savy Thu, 04 Feb 2010 21:30:39 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1918#comment-5955 To Jason Cousin..... I am so happy to see that you wrote and said. I was feeling so hopeless at my relationship. I am the wrong doer in my marriage, and I am struggling to change... I have strong set backs and I know its going to take so much to overcome. I believe that God is working in my heart to let me know that I have to have Faith.. and hope. I am not happy what I did to my husband, and I have regrets.... I just hope I did not permenatly destroyed it. My husband and I are in counseling, and I know we both want to work on our marriage. But sometimes I feel like my husband can quit on us anytime. I never really trusted anyone especially my husband. I was mollested at a very young age and I never really dealt with it until now. How do I know for sure. I am so heart broken.... and afraid. I want him to know That I truley love him, but I know he questions it. True love means sticking together no matter what. To Jason Cousin….. I am so happy to see that you wrote and said. I was feeling so hopeless at my relationship. I am the wrong doer in my marriage, and I am struggling to change… I have strong set backs and I know its going to take so much to overcome. I believe that God is working in my heart to let me know that I have to have Faith.. and hope. I am not happy what I did to my husband, and I have regrets…. I just hope I did not permenatly destroyed it. My husband and I are in counseling, and I know we both want to work on our marriage. But sometimes I feel like my husband can quit on us anytime. I never really trusted anyone especially my husband. I was mollested at a very young age and I never really dealt with it until now. How do I know for sure. I am so heart broken…. and afraid. I want him to know That I truley love him, but I know he questions it. True love means sticking together no matter what.

]]> By: Jason Cousin http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-5305 Jason Cousin Sun, 27 Dec 2009 06:45:46 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1918#comment-5305 This was a great post... There is alot of truth in what you wrote. The one thing I might add is that if there is still desire or love coming from that other person in any type of way. Then try to work it out. Because it shows that that person is still interested into the relationship. You might have to distance yourself away from that person b/c of abuse, drinking, addictions etc etc. But if they love you they will start to recognize there faults and work on them. But you have to let them know what you want out of the relationship in order for them to have some type of direction. It might take time for them to conquer there issues, but in the long run it will be worth it. This was a great post… There is alot of truth in what you wrote. The one thing I might add is that if there is still desire or love coming from that other person in any type of way. Then try to work it out. Because it shows that that person is still interested into the relationship. You might have to distance yourself away from that person b/c of abuse, drinking, addictions etc etc. But if they love you they will start to recognize there faults and work on them. But you have to let them know what you want out of the relationship in order for them to have some type of direction. It might take time for them to conquer there issues, but in the long run it will be worth it.

]]> By: Andrew Bailey http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-3529 Andrew Bailey Thu, 10 Sep 2009 03:12:15 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1918#comment-3529 I just came across your blog and wanted to drop you a note telling you how impressed I was with the information you have posted here. I also have a web site & blog about managing staff issues so I know I'm talking about when I say your site is top-notch! Keep up the great work, you are providing a great resource on the Internet here! I just came across your blog and wanted to drop you a note telling you how impressed I was with the information you have posted here. I also have a web site & blog about managing staff issues so I know I’m talking about when I say your site is top-notch! Keep up the great work, you are providing a great resource on the Internet here!

]]> By: Jennifer http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-2388 Jennifer Thu, 18 Jun 2009 13:54:14 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1918#comment-2388 Well I new at this and me and my husband are having some problems. Ever since I have had my child which was two years ago I dont never get in the mood to have sex, now I just do it sometimes for my husband; but I do want to get in the mood too. Then my mom lives next door and she comes over alot and he is starting to get mad about that I dont know what to say to my mom I dont want to hurt her feelings I know she is coming over to see the baby and that she gets bored at home. So my husband just told me last night that he is basicly just there for the baby. I told him not to just stay for her that I want him to be there because he wants to be not because he feels that he has to be. Also he just thinks I nag all the time which I dont think I do I really dont know what I am suppose to do anymore we dont even talk to each other without an attuide from one of us what do I need to do I need some help please.................. If not I think my marrige will be over or is it already over? Well I new at this and me and my husband are having some problems. Ever since I have had my child which was two years ago I dont never get in the mood to have sex, now I just do it sometimes for my husband; but I do want to get in the mood too. Then my mom lives next door and she comes over alot and he is starting to get mad about that I dont know what to say to my mom I dont want to hurt her feelings I know she is coming over to see the baby and that she gets bored at home. So my husband just told me last night that he is basicly just there for the baby. I told him not to just stay for her that I want him to be there because he wants to be not because he feels that he has to be. Also he just thinks I nag all the time which I dont think I do I really dont know what I am suppose to do anymore we dont even talk to each other without an attuide from one of us what do I need to do I need some help please……………… If not I think my marrige will be over or is it already over?

]]> By: Couplehood Spiritual Path http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-2238 Couplehood Spiritual Path Wed, 03 Jun 2009 05:53:26 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1918#comment-2238 This is a great post, especially the part about recognizing the other's motivations. Often times, resentment is so deep seeded, one spouse will do whatever it takes for the other to ask for a divorce. Great post! Jesse and Melva Johnson This is a great post, especially the part about recognizing the other’s motivations. Often times, resentment is so deep seeded, one spouse will do whatever it takes for the other to ask for a divorce. Great post!

Jesse and Melva Johnson

]]> By: Sarah http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/06/can-this-marriage-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-2216 Sarah Mon, 01 Jun 2009 20:58:50 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1918#comment-2216 One of your very best posts ever, Alisa! And so incredibly true! This exactly what is needed when someone asks "Can my marriage be saved?" Thank you for being so clear-cut, concise and honest! You are, as always, the very best! Take care and God Bless! -Sarah Liz :) One of your very best posts ever, Alisa! And so incredibly true! This exactly what is needed when someone asks “Can my marriage be saved?” Thank you for being so clear-cut, concise and honest! You are, as always, the very best! Take care and God Bless!
-Sarah Liz :)

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