Comments on: What is love anyway?

By: akemi0

akemi0 — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 19:39:56 +0000

I hope it isn’t too late to comment to your article, Alisa. I only recently found your site and I think I’m going to get a lot out of it. I like your list; well thought out after much experience I’d guess. I need some help understanding what you meant by numbers !6 and 19, if you would please. Just a quick ‘for an example’ would suffice I think. Thank you!

By: Michael Garvey

Michael Garvey — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 15:42:36 +0000

45+ years of marriage has taught me two important things: 1. you faal in love (chem 101), 2. you must work hard at it to stay in love. Love is first and foremost giving up of your self. In 1Jn we are told that we know what love is because God is love and He loved us first (see Jn 3:16).

By: Alisa

Alisa — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 21:49:22 +0000

Rachel: I do wish you luck. There are plenty of good men out there. And as you age, you’ll meet more of them because it takes longer for them to reach maturity.

By: Rachael

Rachael — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 21:40:44 +0000

I liked this.
Can’t entierly relate with it as I’m still only 18 and my longest relationship was almost three years. Not much like.
But I can a bit.
Hope to find a decent guy in the future without horrible emotional problems stemming from an abusive childhood.

Wish me luck!

By: Custom Web Design

Custom Web Design — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 21:31:15 +0000

Great article but no need for # 10. LOL

By: Eni

Eni — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 20:06:20 +0000

@ Faelan: Yes, the first few sound materialistic, but they tie into the misconceptions the author mentioned she previously held. I’m sorry you missed out on this wealth of wisdom because you couldn’t look past first impressions. I guess that’s another lesson for the rest of us readers, eh?

By: skattercat

skattercat — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 10:20:03 +0000

Love is a form of insanity and I no longer believe in it.There is love and there is lust many mistake the lust for love and when that happens one or the other always gets hurt.

By: landguppy

landguppy — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 04:06:41 +0000

If only we knew then what we know now, eh? Hand this to your daughters and sons when they finally leave home. Maybe they won’t need to learn the hard way, like so many of us.

By: Dawn

Dawn — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 01:17:35 +0000

Your honesty in tip number seven is golden!

By: stumblebum

stumblebum — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 23:55:16 +0000

some1else–good counterpoint–”love is over rated! an emotional nightmare most of the time… forget about it!”

pets are a good alternative