Comments on: Is it okay to have sex with a much younger man?

By: Alisa

Alisa — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 20:39:47 +0000

I’m turning off the comments on this post for various reasons. Sorry folks.

By: Drusilla

Drusilla — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 19:49:27 +0000

@ Cathy: that’s a tough one. I don’t know honestly.

By: Cathy

Cathy — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 14:33:31 +0000

Another question: As i’ve had my knots tied a few years ago, we don’t use contraception. In fact we always have unprotected sex. Although we are both clean, I feel as if I have a responsibility to ensure that young men protect themselves in bed. I always tell my son to be careful and wear a condom. As my sex partner is the same age, I feel as though I have a duty to ensure he does too. My sex partner thinks condoms are a turn off and I’m usually far too horny to make him wear one when we’re about to do it. I feel like a bit of a hypocrite lecturing to my son about safe sex while abandoning my principles when in bed with my sex partner. Advice??

By: Drusilla

Drusilla — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 00:51:46 +0000

Cathy, I see nothing wrong with it. I just wish *my* young man was a couple of years older: I feel perverty with him being 18 and yes still in High School. Maybe I should wait till he graduates.

By: linda

linda — Fri, 23 Sep 2011 16:19:38 +0000

You go for it girl! Give him the ride of his young life! A young man in his sexual prime is great for a middle-aged woman. If he’s fed up with you he’ll just leave and since you say there’s no emotional connection, then no-one gets hurt. Your son doesn’t need to know anything. You need not feel ashamed. Both your son and your sex partner are 20. Both of them are of legal age, and its natural to be attracted to young men your sons age and even younger (i.e. 18, 19). Besides its none of your son’s business who you have sex with. He really won’t want to know anyway. Its entirely a matter between you and your sex partner. Of course its natural that it turns you on that both of them are the same age, it’s damn hot girl! Just make sure he doesn’t find out! Be a mother to your son and a MILF to your sex partner. Feed one, f**k the other!

By: fleuronfire

fleuronfire — Thu, 15 Sep 2011 12:26:38 +0000

I am a49 yr old woman who has been seeing a guy of 24 for the last 7 weeks. I met him when I was out with friends and he pursued me. I had been celibate for a few years and in a bad relationship for many years before that. This young guy is gorgeous and the sex is incredible. So far the relationship has been confined to my bedroom though we have been out a couple of times for a quiet drink. We both look at the relationship as having no future as he wants to meet a girl his age and have kids within the next 10 yrs. I have a son 3 yrs older than him & 3 kids younger than him who don’t live at home. He has been overseas for the last 2 weeks and has rung me 3 times which I did not request or expect but was pleasantly surprised by. He will be back in 2 weeks and I can’t wait. He is quiet & serious but a great lover and we get on really well. I miss him & because he has rung me I do think that he is missing me, and although I realise that thre is no long term future for us, I am really enjoying the sex, the affection and the conversation. I am getting my confidence back about my sexuality and body and realise it’s about the journey not the destination. I really am enjoying the journey, it’s one hell of a ride. Age is just a number and if the attraction, the lust, the passion and/or love is there, my advice is go for it. You only live once so live life to the fullest and if it feels good do it (as long as they’re of legal age) I am surprised at how much more of a man this young man is, in all sorts of ways, than my ex who is in his mid 40s. He makes me feel fantastic, sexy and oh so horny LOL

By: Cathy

Cathy — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 15:12:23 +0000

I’m a separated 46 year old woman and I’m having regular sex with a 20 year old. After my separation I felt unfulfilled in many ways, particularly sexually. I met this young guy a few months ago and we have been seeing each other frequently since. He is really hot and it turns me on so much to think that such a young man appreciates my body like he does. In short, his youthfulness makes me feel young and sexy again. The sex we are having is incredible and both of us want it to continue. There are however two issues I have with this. A). I also have a son the same age as my sex partner. He lives away in college and I don’t see him that much. I’m ashamed to admit that I’m so turned on by the fact that I’m having sex with a guy my sons age. Is it wrong to feel this way? If he ever found out it would kill me. B). Our relationship is purely based on sex. There is no real emotional connection. We are both merely satisfying our sexual desires. At the moment, this situation is agreeable for both of us, however I feel as if I am simply using him as an object for sexual gratification. Any advice girls??

By: Fina

Fina — Mon, 05 Sep 2011 06:27:12 +0000

And do you have other sex partner beside that young man?

By: Drusilla

Drusilla — Fri, 26 Aug 2011 22:06:09 +0000

Rach: that’s wonderful!. I’m very happy for you. My situation? I think he looks on me as a trusted friend. Idk what is going on in his household, but I do know his father has said inappropiate things about sex in front of him and in front of me. D:

By: Rach

Rach — Mon, 22 Aug 2011 12:45:21 +0000

Why not?? Go for it and have a great time