Comments on: If you want to feel loved, don’t have a baby http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/ Because life after "I do" isn't always so charming Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:39:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Mommy http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-72665 Mommy Fri, 03 Jun 2011 21:47:07 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-72665 LOL omg. i kinda laughed when i read this, i am a mother of 3 and quite younge actually. It's funny cause that list is literly my everyday life. ( i stay home with them while Daddy works. ) i agree with some , its not all fun and smiles. but i assume you dont have kids? because you didnt once mention the instant connection that cannot be explained till you've felt it , between a Mother and a Child. Yes , i am covered in cheezies, i barely get to comb my hair sometimes, my house is always a state , and I LOVE IT! those little happy faces ( most of the time LOL ) totally makes up for any shared desert. like who really needs a full one anyways. close your eyes,. picture this... your sitting alone , single...eating icecream , getting fat...never to have kids ( like yourself ) cause you have no one to share with. Me on the other hand , got lots to share.... i scoop up a big bowl , with a handful of spoons and our icecream turns into a throwing match . Daddy walks through the door , i am pinned to the floor and my sons pouring icecream on my head... i look at my husband , and the love...its still soooo fresh! lifes so fun! kids are sooo funny not too mention , all my 4 year old talks about it sperm whales! lol. kids are great. sometimes i am overwhelmed ....but really, dont be so harsh , on the end of the day , even the worst day , i look down on my mini husband , at those presious tiny hands, and its all worth it.... there gifts... and you? did you hear the saying some people arent ment to be parents? your not.... that dont mean everyone isnt. id stay home with them everyday of my life if i could and i couldnt be a ounce bit happier! :D some people are made for it , some arent/ you wouldnt be here if your parents were shallow minded like yourself. LOL omg. i kinda laughed when i read this, i am a mother of 3 and quite younge actually. It’s funny cause that list is literly my everyday life. ( i stay home with them while Daddy works. ) i agree with some , its not all fun and smiles. but i assume you dont have kids? because you didnt once mention the instant connection that cannot be explained till you’ve felt it , between a Mother and a Child. Yes , i am covered in cheezies, i barely get to comb my hair sometimes, my house is always a state , and I LOVE IT! those little happy faces ( most of the time LOL ) totally makes up for any shared desert. like who really needs a full one anyways. close your eyes,. picture this… your sitting alone , single…eating icecream , getting fat…never to have kids ( like yourself ) cause you have no one to share with. Me on the other hand , got lots to share…. i scoop up a big bowl , with a handful of spoons and our icecream turns into a throwing match . Daddy walks through the door , i am pinned to the floor and my sons pouring icecream on my head… i look at my husband , and the love…its still soooo fresh! lifes so fun! kids are sooo funny not too mention , all my 4 year old talks about it sperm whales! lol. kids are great. sometimes i am overwhelmed ….but really, dont be so harsh , on the end of the day , even the worst day , i look down on my mini husband , at those presious tiny hands, and its all worth it…. there gifts… and you? did you hear the saying some people arent ment to be parents? your not…. that dont mean everyone isnt. id stay home with them everyday of my life if i could and i couldnt be a ounce bit happier! :D some people are made for it , some arent/ you wouldnt be here if your parents were shallow minded like yourself.

]]> By: Tim http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-30587 Tim Mon, 17 Jan 2011 23:20:30 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-30587 The potty-training will still be ongoing after 3-4 years. Marker-pen-on-walls will still be ongoing after 13-14 years, when you wallpaper over it and sell the house for someone else to fix. We chose dogs, where the potty-training sorts itself out within a couple of months and marker-pen does not feature. The potty-training will still be ongoing after 3-4 years.
Marker-pen-on-walls will still be ongoing after 13-14 years, when you wallpaper over it and sell the house for someone else to fix.

We chose dogs, where the potty-training sorts itself out within a couple of months and marker-pen does not feature.

]]> By: Danessa http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-15187 Danessa Mon, 11 Oct 2010 17:58:14 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-15187 If you're any degree of a decent parent, you won't have close to half of those problems. If you’re any degree of a decent parent, you won’t have close to half of those problems.

]]> By: Anna Allen http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-10063 Anna Allen Wed, 30 Jun 2010 14:21:56 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-10063 the good thing about choosing a medical career is that it is a high paying job.,.* the good thing about choosing a medical career is that it is a high paying job.,.*

]]> By: Alisa Bowman http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-4852 Alisa Bowman Sun, 22 Nov 2009 01:33:37 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-4852 Grammar: Think like a child and also like a woman. Children call the entire lower package (front and back) "the bottom." It's not a typo. You'll figure it out eventually and then you'll be like, "oooooh THAT HAIR." .-= Alisa Bowman´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ProjectHappilyEverAfter/~3/gUADky4Vtmo/" rel="nofollow">How to Gain the Upper Hand</a> =-. Grammar: Think like a child and also like a woman. Children call the entire lower package (front and back) “the bottom.” It’s not a typo. You’ll figure it out eventually and then you’ll be like, “oooooh THAT HAIR.”
.-= Alisa Bowman´s last blog ..How to Gain the Upper Hand =-.

]]> By: Grammer http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-4851 Grammer Sun, 22 Nov 2009 01:30:41 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-4851 I hope you mean "Why is THERE here on your bottom?" If not, I'd like to hear whose hair was on your bottom at the time... On second thought, I'd rather not. :) I hope you mean “Why is THERE here on your bottom?” If not, I’d like to hear whose hair was on your bottom at the time… On second thought, I’d rather not. :)

]]> By: rebecca http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-3820 rebecca Wed, 23 Sep 2009 10:42:41 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-3820 after reading this i got so freaked out... but the want for kids is still there >.< after reading this i got so freaked out… but the want for kids is still there >.<

]]> By: Alisa http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-2692 Alisa Wed, 15 Jul 2009 22:33:18 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-2692 Laurie-- welcome! Sometimes my software works correctly and I get an alert whenever someone leaves a comment, even on an older post. Glad you got something out of it and I look forward to hearing more from you in the future. Hang in there! Laurie– welcome! Sometimes my software works correctly and I get an alert whenever someone leaves a comment, even on an older post. Glad you got something out of it and I look forward to hearing more from you in the future. Hang in there!

]]> By: Laurie http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-2691 Laurie Wed, 15 Jul 2009 22:17:50 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-2691 I am reading this post way after the fact, so you most likely will not even see my comment but I had to write anyway. You are fabulous!!!!! This made me laugh out loud which is something I have not done in way to long. I am so thankful I came across your site and registered - can't wait to get more of your wisdom in my inbox because as both wife and mother, I could use all the help I can get :) I am reading this post way after the fact, so you most likely will not even see my comment but I had to write anyway. You are fabulous!!!!! This made me laugh out loud which is something I have not done in way to long. I am so thankful I came across your site and registered – can’t wait to get more of your wisdom in my inbox because as both wife and mother, I could use all the help I can get :)

]]> By: Tom http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/if-you-want-to-feel-loved-dont-have-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-2680 Tom Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:55:07 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1863#comment-2680 Katherine, don't listen to woodenturkey. You will not be alone when you get older. Likely you and your husband will be able to enjoy your golden years without the stress of ungrateful children who took and took and took and then decided to toss you in a retirement home because actually taking care of you would put too much stress on their lives. And I for one gladly contribute my share of federal taxes to help put you through medical school, seeing as how the world actually needs doctors. Children, on the other hand, we have plenty of. Katherine, don’t listen to woodenturkey. You will not be alone when you get older. Likely you and your husband will be able to enjoy your golden years without the stress of ungrateful children who took and took and took and then decided to toss you in a retirement home because actually taking care of you would put too much stress on their lives. And I for one gladly contribute my share of federal taxes to help put you through medical school, seeing as how the world actually needs doctors. Children, on the other hand, we have plenty of.

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