Comments on: How to save a marriage when your spouse doesn’t want to try http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/ Because life after "I do" isn't always so charming Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:39:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: greg http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-102983 greg Tue, 03 Jan 2012 17:30:14 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-102983 i just want my wife to love me again and I'm afraid of loosing her i am certainly not strong enough to keep things together for our daughter. i am going to follow your steps. I hope this works with all my heart. every once and awhile she shows that maybe it's not to late but then something happens or i do something foolish that send her away again. i just hope i can get out of my own way long enough to get things right and save my marriage because with out her i really am just going to fall apart. i just want my wife to love me again and I’m afraid of loosing her i am certainly not strong enough to keep things together for our daughter. i am going to follow your steps. I hope this works with all my heart.
every once and awhile she shows that maybe it’s not to late but then something happens or i do something foolish that send her away again.
i just hope i can get out of my own way long enough to get things right and save my marriage because with out her i really am just going to fall apart.

]]> By: Artwell musungate http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-101103 Artwell musungate Sun, 18 Dec 2011 22:39:04 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-101103 I have some problems with my wife .she dosent call me when iam atwork even showing me love the way i like.nowim starting not to trust her ,and also my love towards her is fly'n away.i dont know what to do help???.my regards I have some problems with my wife .she dosent call me when iam atwork even showing me love the way i like.nowim starting not to trust her ,and also my love towards her is fly’n away.i dont know what to do help???.my regards

]]> By: Alisa http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-98314 Alisa Mon, 28 Nov 2011 00:35:01 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-98314 Hi everyone, I have removed comments made by Jay, Lisa and "Jay's Wife." I will ask you not to respond to future comments about this situation. Thank you so much for your cooperation. Hi everyone,

I have removed comments made by Jay, Lisa and “Jay’s Wife.” I will ask you not to respond to future comments about this situation. Thank you so much for your cooperation.

]]> By: Scott http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-90077 Scott Thu, 29 Sep 2011 13:41:56 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-90077 My wife wants out I asked if we could go get some help and she said that no one can tell her anything that she doesnt already know. We have been together for 29 years married for 19. I just dont understand why she couldn't come to me and say hey we need to go get some help. But what realy gets me is that she doesn't want to work at it after this long. I don't want this to end. Please help me. My wife wants out I asked if we could go get some help and she said that no one can tell her anything that she doesnt already know. We have been together for 29 years married for 19. I just dont understand why she couldn’t come to me and say hey we need to go get some help. But what realy gets me is that she doesn’t want to work at it after this long. I don’t want this to end. Please help me.

]]> By: Mary http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-87081 Mary Mon, 12 Sep 2011 20:56:34 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-87081 I like your website and it really contains lots of useful information. Thanks for sharing with us. I like your website and it really contains lots of useful information. Thanks for sharing with us.

]]> By: Su http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-85196 Su Fri, 26 Aug 2011 15:45:12 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-85196 Hi Alisa, i need your help i have been married for 2 years, i love him a lot he has sent me back home and now wants a divorce. we do have small fights he says he cant take it any more, the reason he gives is that we dont have any match and there is no sync between us. but i love him and cant think of living without him. Hi Alisa, i need your help i have been married for 2 years, i love him a lot he has sent me back home and now wants a divorce. we do have small fights he says he cant take it any more, the reason he gives is that we dont have any match and there is no sync between us. but i love him and cant think of living without him.

]]> By: BEN http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-80723 BEN Fri, 22 Jul 2011 03:12:30 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-80723 I REAL APPRICIATE THE ADVICE! I REAL APPRICIATE THE ADVICE!

]]> By: Lyn http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-77390 Lyn Sat, 02 Jul 2011 20:36:01 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-77390 Maybe someone can point me in the right direction, My husband moved out on May 2.. said that we had been argueing too much over the years and that he couldnt do it anymore. We spent the first month going from being civil and then not so civil. The past 2 weeks have been amazing, we can talk, we hang out, he has spent the night a few times. During the first 6 weeks, one week he could tell me he loved me, next week he couldnt and it went back and forth. these last 2 weeks he says it all the time. Yet he still lives elsewhere. if I mention reconciling, or taking small steps to repair our marriage he refuses to discuss it and seems to get angry. We have been together 7 years, married for almost 5 of them, I don't want a divorce, when I ask him if thats what he wants he says, very sarcastically, that thats what he planned. I dont know what we are doing. I know that I want our marriage to work out, I love him still, even with hurtful things we have said to each other. How can I fix this with him living in another home? I would love any advice from anyone. you can email me, thanks :) Lyn frogprincess2102@yahoo.com Maybe someone can point me in the right direction, My husband moved out on May 2.. said that we had been argueing too much over the years and that he couldnt do it anymore. We spent the first month going from being civil and then not so civil. The past 2 weeks have been amazing, we can talk, we hang out, he has spent the night a few times. During the first 6 weeks, one week he could tell me he loved me, next week he couldnt and it went back and forth. these last 2 weeks he says it all the time. Yet he still lives elsewhere. if I mention reconciling, or taking small steps to repair our marriage he refuses to discuss it and seems to get angry. We have been together 7 years, married for almost 5 of them, I don’t want a divorce, when I ask him if thats what he wants he says, very sarcastically, that thats what he planned. I dont know what we are doing. I know that I want our marriage to work out, I love him still, even with hurtful things we have said to each other. How can I fix this with him living in another home? I would love any advice from anyone. you can email me, thanks :)
Lyn
frogprincess2102@yahoo.com

]]> By: bakwai http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-77290 bakwai Sat, 02 Jul 2011 12:58:40 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-77290 am very happy when i read this wonderful article that i had been waiting for.But for my own site am married to a pretty woman that i love so much, but nw some certain things begin to come up which i dont want to be doing. I became a angry man that any time she is talking to me i fell like saying things that i dont want to say to her, and i love her pls what can i do to save my married, i want to be a happy man with my family. am very happy when i read this wonderful article that i had been waiting for.But for my own site am married to a pretty woman that i love so much, but nw some certain things begin to come up which i dont want to be doing. I became a angry man that any time she is talking to me i fell like saying things that i dont want to say to her, and i love her pls what can i do to save my married, i want to be a happy man with my family.

]]> By: Sarai http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/how-to-save-a-marriage-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-7485 Sarai Wed, 14 Apr 2010 13:53:55 +0000 http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/?p=1884#comment-7485 I know its not easy to save a marriage from a divorce. But my problem is that in my case my husband had just been divorced & has 2 boys from his ex-wife. I love the fact that he cares for his boys but I just don't like the fact that when he makes agreement with the boys' mother he does not always speak to me about it to see if I agree with it. When I do figure issues like that, he gets mad and tells me that this is any of my buisness. The sad part about this is the way I gave him my life and married him but most of the time it feels like if he's not even listening to not even one word I am saying. We were living together 2yrs before we got married, we got married 2 wks ago, but there comes moments that I feel that I just don't know what to do anymore. I also know that his 2 boys come before me no matter what, but I just feel that as me becoming his wife, he should give me more respect and try to see if I agree with him before speaking to the boys' mother. I know its not easy to save a marriage from a divorce. But my problem is that in my case my husband had just been divorced & has 2 boys from his ex-wife. I love the fact that he cares for his boys but I just don’t like the fact that when he makes agreement with the boys’ mother he does not always speak to me about it to see if I agree with it. When I do figure issues like that, he gets mad and tells me that this is any of my buisness. The sad part about this is the way I gave him my life and married him but most of the time it feels like if he’s not even listening to not even one word I am saying. We were living together 2yrs before we got married, we got married 2 wks ago, but there comes moments that I feel that I just don’t know what to do anymore. I also know that his 2 boys come before me no matter what, but I just feel that as me becoming his wife, he should give me more respect and try to see if I agree with him before speaking to the boys’ mother.

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