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	<title>Comments on: 33 Surefire Ways to Screw Up Your Marriage</title>
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	<description>Because life after &#34;I do&#34; isn&#039;t always so charming</description>
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		<title>By: Amie</title>
		<link>http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/33-surefire-ways-to-screw-up-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-94835</link>
		<dc:creator>Amie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 09:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey men take it personally too when the women service themselves... like we have a problem with the mans performance... sometimes we just need to let go of some tension too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey men take it personally too when the women service themselves&#8230; like we have a problem with the mans performance&#8230; sometimes we just need to let go of some tension too!<br />
<span class="cluv">Amie´s last [type] ..<a target="_blank" href="http://www.brilliance-relationship-guide.com/2011/10/passive-aggressive-or-expressing-love.html" class="5f595258ee 94835" rel="nofollow" >Passive Aggressive? Or Expressing LOVE?</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Amie</title>
		<link>http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/33-surefire-ways-to-screw-up-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-94201</link>
		<dc:creator>Amie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 19:27:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I, a female, would be totally happy with cohabitation for the rest of my life in a monogamous relationship with the same man without the slip of paper or pompous party called a wedding. but my last boyfriend informed that there would have to be a marriage certificate, prenuptial AND a wedding. the wedding was to make his family happy. 

Not all women are looking to tie men down or emotionally control them and coerce them into a marriage and wedding etc..

i care less about if is is willing or able to support me or possible kids financially. I really dont want to worry about him needing to pay spousal support if there was a divorce, nor do I care about any inheritance he might get. its not my money  and i didnt earn it through my hard work. so i dont care.  I have two hands and am able to work. 

what some women want out of a relationship with a guy isnt always self serving, some women just want the companionship and to be able to be there for another adult and support another person emotionally. 

so not all women are assholes either.. just sayin&#039;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, a female, would be totally happy with cohabitation for the rest of my life in a monogamous relationship with the same man without the slip of paper or pompous party called a wedding. but my last boyfriend informed that there would have to be a marriage certificate, prenuptial AND a wedding. the wedding was to make his family happy. </p>
<p>Not all women are looking to tie men down or emotionally control them and coerce them into a marriage and wedding etc..</p>
<p>i care less about if is is willing or able to support me or possible kids financially. I really dont want to worry about him needing to pay spousal support if there was a divorce, nor do I care about any inheritance he might get. its not my money  and i didnt earn it through my hard work. so i dont care.  I have two hands and am able to work. </p>
<p>what some women want out of a relationship with a guy isnt always self serving, some women just want the companionship and to be able to be there for another adult and support another person emotionally. </p>
<p>so not all women are assholes either.. just sayin&#8217;<br />
<span class="cluv">Amie´s last [type] ..<a target="_blank" href="http://www.brilliance-relationship-guide.com/2011/10/11-things-i-did-wrong-and-how-i-would.html" class="b45504207b 94201" rel="nofollow" >11 Things I Did Wrong and How I Would Do Them Differently</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Amie</title>
		<link>http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/33-surefire-ways-to-screw-up-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-94198</link>
		<dc:creator>Amie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 19:14:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes because men often wear ballett flats and slim leg jeans.. yup.. thats got to be it...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes because men often wear ballett flats and slim leg jeans.. yup.. thats got to be it&#8230;<br />
<span class="cluv">Amie´s last [type] ..<a target="_blank" href="http://www.brilliance-relationship-guide.com/2011/10/11-things-i-did-wrong-and-how-i-would.html" class="1b260441c6 94198" rel="nofollow" >11 Things I Did Wrong and How I Would Do Them Differently</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Greg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 21:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep, money would add another 20 points to the list.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep, money would add another 20 points to the list.</p>
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		<title>By: Restoring Love and Rebuilding Your Marriage</title>
		<link>http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/33-surefire-ways-to-screw-up-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-84457</link>
		<dc:creator>Restoring Love and Rebuilding Your Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Aug 2011 03:06:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The question I have for you is, do you believe that restoring love and rebuilding your marriage can begin today? If you said &quot;yes&quot; then I applaud you because fifty percent the battle is alreadyly won, if you believe in your mind and heart that your marriage can be transformed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The question I have for you is, do you believe that restoring love and rebuilding your marriage can begin today? If you said &#8220;yes&#8221; then I applaud you because fifty percent the battle is alreadyly won, if you believe in your mind and heart that your marriage can be transformed.</p>
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		<title>By: Loni</title>
		<link>http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2009/05/33-surefire-ways-to-screw-up-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-83319</link>
		<dc:creator>Loni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Aug 2011 21:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was wondering that myself...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was wondering that myself&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: philips flat tv</title>
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		<dc:creator>philips flat tv</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 14:25:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is so much in this article that I would never have thought of on my own.  Your content gives readers things to think about in an interesting way.  Thank you for your clear information.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is so much in this article that I would never have thought of on my own.  Your content gives readers things to think about in an interesting way.  Thank you for your clear information.</p>
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		<title>By: underthemicrscope</title>
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		<dc:creator>underthemicrscope</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2011 18:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>With all due respect, Anonymous, I believe that if you read or listen to her personal journey you would see that Alisa says point blank that she thought it was all her husband who was at fault, but when she started working on her relationship she realized that she held the power to change the only thing she could change - herself.  Most people reading the list who are honest will find answers that apply to both sides of their relationship - it does take two, after all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With all due respect, Anonymous, I believe that if you read or listen to her personal journey you would see that Alisa says point blank that she thought it was all her husband who was at fault, but when she started working on her relationship she realized that she held the power to change the only thing she could change &#8211; herself.  Most people reading the list who are honest will find answers that apply to both sides of their relationship &#8211; it does take two, after all.</p>
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		<title>By: Jay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jun 2011 16:24:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You stop being a servant to her.
You stop praying with her/him.
You stop submitting to him in your mind, as well as your heart and mouth.
Her &#039;needs&#039; stop coming before your &#039;wants&#039; and &#039;needs&#039;.
Her &#039;wants&#039; stop coming before your &#039;wants&#039; and most of your &#039;needs&#039;.
You&#039;ve stopped praying for him/her.
&lt;i&gt;You&#039;ve stopped putting her first!&lt;/i&gt; (you did while you were dating...what happened?)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You stop being a servant to her.<br />
You stop praying with her/him.<br />
You stop submitting to him in your mind, as well as your heart and mouth.<br />
Her &#8216;needs&#8217; stop coming before your &#8216;wants&#8217; and &#8216;needs&#8217;.<br />
Her &#8216;wants&#8217; stop coming before your &#8216;wants&#8217; and most of your &#8216;needs&#8217;.<br />
You&#8217;ve stopped praying for him/her.<br />
<i>You&#8217;ve stopped putting her first!</i> (you did while you were dating&#8230;what happened?)</p>
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		<title>By: Pammy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pammy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 21:54:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Talking nice to each other is so important to me but my husband just blirts out whatever he wants. I really like number one.there is so many of these in my marriage, love all the lists!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Talking nice to each other is so important to me but my husband just blirts out whatever he wants. I really like number one.there is so many of these in my marriage, love all the lists!</p>
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