Comments on: How long great sex really lasts

By: TraderHubbyDad

TraderHubbyDad — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 00:56:21 +0000

My wife and I usually start getting rub rash after about 20 minutes of hardcore lovemaking, so I would have to say the optimal penetration session (lovemaking entails everything from pre-foreplay sex talk, foreplay, penetration, afterplay and naked cuddling) for me is no more than 15 minutes tops, 10 minutes preferable.

By: What women want | rainy day

What women want | rainy day — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 09:54:43 +0000

[...] 10 minutes is pretty much all we can be bothered with. In fact, it’s even been proven by a study. So, [...]

By: Russell Yazbeck

Russell Yazbeck — Thu, 28 May 2009 19:10:50 +0000

I have sex for 30-60 mins. I like to take my time. Taking off her clothes is very enjoyable for me, so is kissing, fondling, oral, etc. Besides that my dick works better if there is foreplay. For me a quickie is 10-20 mins. Normal is 30-60, and if we’re feeling frisky we’ll go for over an hour.

This is a different situation than in the past, since we all know that every woman is different when it comes to stimulation. I’ve spent 45 mins just on oral with a woman who was inexperienced and had pretty significant vaginal issues, but it was well worth it. I’ve had sex with women who were “done” in less than 10 mins. It varies so dramatically from person to person and couple to couple that there is no such thing as a standard like 10 mins or 4 hours. Some people can get it on all night if they want and some people can’t get it on at all.

By: john

john — Mon, 25 May 2009 00:34:07 +0000

actually i use to make love at least for 45 minutes some time to 2,3,hours,long time more enjoyment

By: ole lady

ole lady — Wed, 20 May 2009 00:02:07 +0000

well …. i really need to be touched loved and have sex last for more than 14 seconds what is so wrong with that?

By: Chris P

Chris P — Sun, 17 May 2009 11:43:56 +0000

I agree with Kish. If I’ve got the time 45 mins to an hour is nice. Even two hours, on those extra special occasions. Then again I’m a university student with some time on my hands. If you’ve got places to go and people to see 15 minutes is fine too. I would never cut it shorter than 10 mins though. If I have just a spare 10 minutes, I’d use it to read the paper.

By: Rick Daley

Rick Daley — Sat, 16 May 2009 02:49:39 +0000

Nice website and good informative article. but all i want to say that it varies from person to person some takes ussaualy longer time then the others
Thanks for the information.

By: WomansPoint

WomansPoint — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 00:52:52 +0000

It really depends on the two partners, what everyone is saying is correct in their own sense. But sex has nothing to do with whats normal, what other people are doing, or what others expect from you. Its ALLLL about you and your partner and how you choose to please one another. Now if, both parties are satisfied with a quickie then thats great…if not then there will be a problem.

Regardless of what Sexperts and Psychologists say some people enjoy long lasting sex. I personally enjoy having frequent sex and how long the sex will last depends on how aroused the man can make me. There is nothing like having multiple orgasms all night long and nothing beats being comfortable enough with your partner to really find ways of pleasing each other.

To try to put sexual activity in a box is absurd and its amazing how people try to do that.

YOU CAN’T PUT SEX IN A BOX WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT!!!!!

So none of you are wrong, and none of you should feel weird for liking what you like. If you are unhappy with your sex life thats a whole different story. But please people, stop thinking your way is the only way. To me this article seemed like she was trying to not only justify herself but also to make others feel abnormal for what they like. There are woman who enjoy having sex for an extended period of time and clearly there are ones who don’t. Live and let live.

By: Hobbes

Hobbes — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 01:15:56 +0000

I am pretty sure all the people who describe long hours of love making or all nighters are:1. Lying 2. Unclear (as in they have multiple sessions in a two hour period) 3. Living in a fantasy world instead of the apartment with their cats.

By: rachy

rachy — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 04:35:17 +0000

Thinking about this, sex is like eating. Sometimes you want a quickie snack; sometimes you want to spend the time to enjoy a full course, fulfilling meal.