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	<description>Because life after &#34;I do&#34; isn&#039;t always so charming</description>
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		<title>By: jane</title>
		<link>http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2008/10/12-surefire-ways-to-get-in-the-mood/comment-page-1/#comment-95246</link>
		<dc:creator>jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2011 06:15:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Anthony....kudos to you. To be understanding ... Amazing . Most guys just cheat instead.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anthony&#8230;.kudos to you. To be understanding &#8230; Amazing . Most guys just cheat instead.</p>
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		<title>By: Peter</title>
		<link>http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2008/10/12-surefire-ways-to-get-in-the-mood/comment-page-1/#comment-82612</link>
		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 17:21:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Try Mila...look it up...it may help a lot.

http://nepa.lifemax.net/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Try Mila&#8230;look it up&#8230;it may help a lot.</p>
<p><a target="_blank" href="http://nepa.lifemax.net/"  rel="nofollow">http://nepa.lifemax.net/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Richard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 18:05:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike, 

I was married 22 years and had been having sex with her for 27 years.  Just because you have great sex today does not mean you will tomorrow...don&#039;t ever think that.  It happened to me.  My wife started going through peri-menopause and it has totally altered out wonderful sexy life.  We too had sex 2 times a day everyday and when she was on her period...she still wanted to give me oral sex....I didn&#039;t even have to hint at it.  Well, I haven&#039;t had any type of sex with her since Nov 16, 2011.  The menopause has totally altered her moods and our great sex life.  Appreciate the sex while you can get it....one day it may be gone!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike, </p>
<p>I was married 22 years and had been having sex with her for 27 years.  Just because you have great sex today does not mean you will tomorrow&#8230;don&#8217;t ever think that.  It happened to me.  My wife started going through peri-menopause and it has totally altered out wonderful sexy life.  We too had sex 2 times a day everyday and when she was on her period&#8230;she still wanted to give me oral sex&#8230;.I didn&#8217;t even have to hint at it.  Well, I haven&#8217;t had any type of sex with her since Nov 16, 2011.  The menopause has totally altered her moods and our great sex life.  Appreciate the sex while you can get it&#8230;.one day it may be gone!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: AussieV</title>
		<link>http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2008/10/12-surefire-ways-to-get-in-the-mood/comment-page-1/#comment-80066</link>
		<dc:creator>AussieV</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2011 02:01:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>J.... Im in the same boat as you, see my previouse comments, i have no idear what to do. :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>J&#8230;. Im in the same boat as you, see my previouse comments, i have no idear what to do. <img src='http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: AussieV</title>
		<link>http://www.projecthappilyeverafter.com/2008/10/12-surefire-ways-to-get-in-the-mood/comment-page-1/#comment-80019</link>
		<dc:creator>AussieV</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 13:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm not interested in sex at all ? and he is fine with that ? is he even male , i mean , i barely get any sort of sex at all, no touching nothing , my partner backs away from me every time i try something , befor you ask no im not presureing her to have sex with me , but come on almost 8 months with no sort of sexual tact ? realy ? yes i love her and she loves me but some times its just all to much , every time i try and talk to her about it she gets all defencive  and starts yelling pretty much. it gets to the point of thinking well im horny coz i have&#039;t got ay for over 8 months its just as easy to get up and go and play a fkn computer game , now you tell me thats normal. sex is part of a healthy relationship, i mean i would be happy with once a fortning or hell even once a month. but seriously  its starting to give me the shits. and i have no idear how to get her in the mood , it makes me wonder if shes onlu haveing sex with me to please me at times, makes me feel like shit and that shes not attracted to me any more. so im out of idears , i mean she likes me going down on her and what not. we where kid free last night , i thought awsome a good time to actualy make love. yeah no , she just went to sleep and me thinking fuck this , got up and jumped on the pc for the rest of the nite ........ now you tell me that makes sence ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm not interested in sex at all ? and he is fine with that ? is he even male , i mean , i barely get any sort of sex at all, no touching nothing , my partner backs away from me every time i try something , befor you ask no im not presureing her to have sex with me , but come on almost 8 months with no sort of sexual tact ? realy ? yes i love her and she loves me but some times its just all to much , every time i try and talk to her about it she gets all defencive  and starts yelling pretty much. it gets to the point of thinking well im horny coz i have&#8217;t got ay for over 8 months its just as easy to get up and go and play a fkn computer game , now you tell me thats normal. sex is part of a healthy relationship, i mean i would be happy with once a fortning or hell even once a month. but seriously  its starting to give me the shits. and i have no idear how to get her in the mood , it makes me wonder if shes onlu haveing sex with me to please me at times, makes me feel like shit and that shes not attracted to me any more. so im out of idears , i mean she likes me going down on her and what not. we where kid free last night , i thought awsome a good time to actualy make love. yeah no , she just went to sleep and me thinking fuck this , got up and jumped on the pc for the rest of the nite &#8230;&#8230;.. now you tell me that makes sence ?</p>
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		<title>By: Kit</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jul 2011 11:45:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I posted this on another article, but I realized it is more relevant here.


My boyfriend (hope he will be my husband one day, we plan on it) has a lower sex drive than me. He says it&#039;s not because he&#039;s doesn&#039;t desire me or any of that. He says he just doesn&#039;t feel the need to do it so frequently. I admit that I do have a much higher sex drive than me, and this is not a question of fulfillment because he always makes me feel good. We still have a healthy amount of sex with 2 or 3 times a week, but I&#039;m still left wanting more and sometimes I feel as though I am pressuring him into it sometimes. 

I sometimes feel hurt because as women we have always been fed the notion that men will be the ones pressuring us for sex and constantly asking for it, but I&#039;M the one who wants it all the time.

What should I do? I don&#039;t want him to feel pressured and guilty for shooting me down.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I posted this on another article, but I realized it is more relevant here.</p>
<p>My boyfriend (hope he will be my husband one day, we plan on it) has a lower sex drive than me. He says it&#8217;s not because he&#8217;s doesn&#8217;t desire me or any of that. He says he just doesn&#8217;t feel the need to do it so frequently. I admit that I do have a much higher sex drive than me, and this is not a question of fulfillment because he always makes me feel good. We still have a healthy amount of sex with 2 or 3 times a week, but I&#8217;m still left wanting more and sometimes I feel as though I am pressuring him into it sometimes. </p>
<p>I sometimes feel hurt because as women we have always been fed the notion that men will be the ones pressuring us for sex and constantly asking for it, but I&#8217;M the one who wants it all the time.</p>
<p>What should I do? I don&#8217;t want him to feel pressured and guilty for shooting me down.</p>
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		<title>By: M</title>
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		<dc:creator>M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 04:38:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, the problem with me and my husb, is that we DO get in the&#039;mood&#039; but after a while we find ourselves doing the same old stuff. I cant seem to make him understand that i dnt realy like it like i useto w/o making him feel bad. Help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, the problem with me and my husb, is that we DO get in the&#8217;mood&#8217; but after a while we find ourselves doing the same old stuff. I cant seem to make him understand that i dnt realy like it like i useto w/o making him feel bad. Help.</p>
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		<title>By: Kathy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 02:54:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was having back pain from my job since December.  I finally went to a health food store.  She told me about Curcumin capsules. You are suppost to take 2 in the morning and 2 at night.  It took a couple days to kick in but it worked.  I feel better
 I take 2 before I go to work.  And I have to keep them up on my days off.  Otherwise
it takes a while to kick in again.  It was 36.00 dollars for 60 capsules. But I looked in the vitamin catalog and they are buy 1 get 1 free. Plus there are deals online.
 This is her # 1 pain killer at the health food store. Arthritis, inflamation, back pain
joint pain ect...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was having back pain from my job since December.  I finally went to a health food store.  She told me about Curcumin capsules. You are suppost to take 2 in the morning and 2 at night.  It took a couple days to kick in but it worked.  I feel better<br />
 I take 2 before I go to work.  And I have to keep them up on my days off.  Otherwise<br />
it takes a while to kick in again.  It was 36.00 dollars for 60 capsules. But I looked in the vitamin catalog and they are buy 1 get 1 free. Plus there are deals online.<br />
 This is her # 1 pain killer at the health food store. Arthritis, inflamation, back pain<br />
joint pain ect&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2011 03:39:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know what everyone situation is, but I have been with my wife for fifteen years.  Haven&#039;t been married fifteen years, but we have been together that long.  Except for that time of month.  We do it everyday at least twice a day.  We have the best sex, and we both love it!  Her and I are the happiest couple in the world!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know what everyone situation is, but I have been with my wife for fifteen years.  Haven&#8217;t been married fifteen years, but we have been together that long.  Except for that time of month.  We do it everyday at least twice a day.  We have the best sex, and we both love it!  Her and I are the happiest couple in the world!</p>
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		<title>By: Kristy J</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristy J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 May 2011 02:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>She should try seeing a chiropractor! Adjustments could help to ease the pain and get joint fluids flowing, it may certainly not fix it but it is a good holistic alternative or addition to prescription medications. The chiropractor may also be able to give you positions that would put the least amount of stress on her joints. I used to work in a chiropractic office so I at least know the doctor would be able to help you find positions that would put the least amount of stress on her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>She should try seeing a chiropractor! Adjustments could help to ease the pain and get joint fluids flowing, it may certainly not fix it but it is a good holistic alternative or addition to prescription medications. The chiropractor may also be able to give you positions that would put the least amount of stress on her joints. I used to work in a chiropractic office so I at least know the doctor would be able to help you find positions that would put the least amount of stress on her.</p>
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